PROVE YOURSELF WRONG
Most of us, when we make up our minds, set out immediately to validate what we think we “know,” says Dr. Ellis. As time goes on, we find more and more “proof” that our assumptions are correct because all we’re looking for is that proof. :But we tend to learn more by trying to falsify our assumption,” says Dr. Ellis.
There’s no better way to find holes in the fabric of faulty thinking than to ask yourself, “What are the reasons I may be wrong?” Try asking this question of yourself the next time you feel absolutely sure about something. You’ve got nothing to lose but your possible error!
